TV’s “All-American girl” had to undergo an illegal abortion. She doesn’t want anyone else to have to do that.

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Actress Sally Field; photo from 2023

Sally Field, the actress whose iconic roles range from Gidget to Norma Rae to Mary Todd Lincoln, is warning voters about the dangers of electing a president who doesn’t firmly support a woman’s right to abortion that is safe, legal and quickly obtainable nearby.

She made a video describing how, at 17, her doctor drove her to Tijuana in Mexico, handed her some money and told her which building to enter. She endured molestation from a man prepping her for the procedure, followed by an abortion without anesthesia.

My experience was similar but not nearly so harrowing.

As a pregnant 17-year-old in 1969, the only doctor I’d ever seen was an elderly pediatrician. Knowing I couldn’t turn to him or to my parents left me one option: an illicit, black-market abortion arranged through a word-of-mouth network that stretched 30 miles from the South Side of Chicago to the suburbs.

Friends drove me into the city for my evening appointment. We entered a bungalow indistinguishable from all the others in the neighborhood and sat down in the living room. Our host offered us drinks made from Tang (an orange-flavored powder) and vodka. Then he excused himself and went downstairs to the basement.

When he returned, he was wearing a formerly white, knee-length lab coat like doctors wear, although he was not a doctor. The front of it was covered in old, dried blood stains. He stood in front of me, counting the wad of bills I handed him from my purse while I stared at those stains. Getting that money had required begging, borrowing and stealing. I was gambling that he wouldn’t turn me away because I was $50 short of the $500 he’d expected.

He didn’t, but I had to swear to him I would send the 50 bucks as soon as I could.

He led us downstairs. Most of it was a dark, but furnished basement. A closet off to one side had been turned into an operating room. He gave me three injections of who-knows-what, and I soon became insensible, waking only once while in the closet to feel one of my friends stroking my hair and assuring me it would be over soon. Later, she told me she’d thrown up twice, that our host had performed abortions on two other girls while I was there and that the mother of one of them had been screaming at him that her daughter was bleeding too much.

I was lucky. I felt no pain, wasn’t sexually assaulted and suffered no injuries threatening my health or even my life. That is the way every abortion should be. Which is why they must be safe, legal and readily available wherever a woman lives. Unless, of course, you wouldn’t mind your own wife, daughter or sister having to rely on unsafe, illegal and hard-to-get surgery in another country or in somebody’s basement.

The Biggest Loser

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The closer we get to election day, the more candidate Trump morphs from bully to whiner.

My microphone was faulty! The media’s out to get me!

Next will come the crybaby: I was robbed! It was a conspiracy! No fair!

Despite dire predictions of chaos and revolution after the ballot count shows Clinton won, I think it’s safe to say most people just will heave a sigh of relief that it’s over. And some of us won’t be able to resist yelling at the self-proclaimed victim of injustice as he stomps, pouting, out of the schoolyard:

Nyaaa, nyaaa – LOSER!

Trump’s America: land of the tweet, home of the craven

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The contest this November is between fear and hope.

Those who are fearful of the world, the future, the unfamiliar, of change and of Others have given up on our democracy. They feel (often rightfully so) that they’ve been lied to, cheated and used. They see no security in their futures and don’t believe they can exert any influence over the forces that control their fates.

The hopeful also feel they’ve been lied to, cheated and used, but haven’t given up. They see change as an opportunity instead of a threat, a chance to reinvent themselves and maybe the country for the better. They aren’t looking for scapegoats. They’re willing to take the risks of tolerance and to give up some security to forge a path into the unknown.

One group sees democracy as a zero-sum game whose rules are rigged against them. They think they’re falling behind because Others are getting ahead.

The other group thinks that if everyone follows the rules, nobody will fall too far behind and everybody has a shot at winning.

People in these two groups have one thing in common: they’re all angry with each other. The fearful view the hopeful as dupes who will only bring on more of the same. They want reassurance that somebody powerful will seize control to protect them, and they’re willing to let that person blow the whole country to hell because they believe the system can’t be fixed. They confuse bluster with bravery, bullying with strength and compromise with betrayal.

The hopeful will have to drag the fearful, kicking and screaming, into the future of an imperfect democracy. In this country, we dare to venture forth instead of hunker down, we value liberty over security and we strive to overcome fear with courage.

 

 

Frankentrump’s monster: It’s alive!

 

The Republican Party has created the most oafish presidential nominee ever as surely as Dr. Frankenstein created his monster.

Start with dead ideas and keep digging them up, no matter how rotten: tax breaks for the rich, benefit cuts for the poor;  unlimited campaign funding for corporations, voting restrictions for people. Cobble together with beliefs, not facts.

Stoke the anger of voters by blaming the powerless. Deny reality. Refuse to leave the isolated echo-chamber of angry old white men. Expel those who sound warnings.

Zap the campaign with high-voltage fearmongering and watch this give life to an unnatural creation who appalls and frightens. It’s alive!

Voters naïve enough to go along with this are, like Little Maria, putting themselves in peril. The rest of us hope to kill the monster at the ballot box.

Failing that, we’ll see angry villagers storming the White House, and every other Trump property, with clubs and torches.